Check out the We-Vibe!

Jun03
Neil and I stumbled across this cute and effective vibrator while shopping yesterday. It’s medical-grade silicone and slides over the clitoris and G-spot. Best of all, your man can comfortable slide his penis over it while it massages your G-spot. Of course, try it yourself first to get used to

And I Wrote….

Jun02
Neil is downstairs writing frantically as I post this – hooray. What fun! No doubt, Ewan will counter with something strong, masculine and oh so sexual. Double hooray! Here goes…. The realization that he had come to love Amber disturbed and confused him most of all.  He’d rarely cared one way or another

Random Thought

May31
It amazes me that there are so many Twitter sites giving explicit instructions on sexual technique. I’m all for guidance, but let’s spend more time experimenting and exploring. And most of all, have fun!

Will You Submit to Christian Grey?

May29
I’m all for anything that leads to sexual self-examination & more openness. Bring our on, E.L. James

S&M QUOTE OF THE DAY

May29
Ditto for orgasms, Canadian Ladies!

S & M Quote of the Day

May29
Ditto for orgasms, Canadian Ladies!

Then Neil Wrote…

May26
A good question indeed! One that he never considered nor ever had to. Why would he? Other women always surrendered to him. It was never a question of what they might want. He knew most would see this as a selfish pursuit of his need to dominate and in part

S&M Quote of the Day

May22
This quote may be of interest….

Back to Basics: the sense of touch

May21
I certainly hope you all have tried a variety of different touch sensations. Ever tried touch with feathers…..

Back to Basics (Reblog)

May21
I certainly hope you all have tried a variety of different touch sensations. Ever tried touch with feathers…..

Our Joint Story

May21
Ewan realized that Amber wasn’t into the whole S/D lifestyle. She had made it clear that she wasn’t into real pain or humiliation. Yet, she had the capacity to completely release her will and submit sexually. And each time they came together, Ewan became more fixated on having her submit

Then I Wrote…

May21
But he had a nagging doubt that her surrender was to her fantasies and her own sexual need, and not to him. He had to make sure that her surrender was to him, for him. Thoughts of Amber intruded at inopportune moments, and he was finding it more and more

Then Neil Wrote….

May15
Yesterday I mentioned that Neil and I are sharing the writing of a fantasy story. I started with this…. Ewan realized that Amber wasn’t into the whole S/D lifestyle. She had made it clear that she wasn’t into real pain or humiliation. Yet, she had the capacity to completely release

Tell Me It’s Not So!

May14
I just met a middle years woman, like myself, who during the course of our conversation said, “I have yet to meet a woman who considers her husband a good lover. Please tell me this sad statement isn’t true! Thankfully – hear me shout here – in my marriage of

Take the Time, Touch Yourself!

May10
Those who follow me on Twitter @lilithdarville know that my #1 piece of advice to improve as a lover is to learn how to pleasure yourself. Here’s one woman’s perspective for your enjoyment. Lilith

Touch Yourself: A Stay-At-Home Mom Manifesto

May10
Those who follow me on Twitter @lilithdarville know that my #1 piece of advice to improve as a lover is to learn how to pleasure yourself. Here’s one woman’s perspective for your enjoyment. Lilith

Are We Just Lucky?

Apr13
My husband Neil and I embrace sex with equal passion. We don’t just like sex, we love, adore and enthusiastically pursue the sexual side of our relationship. A friend recently asked if we enjoyed our sex as much as we appear to enjoy each other’s company, and that was my

Apparently there are other Scorpio books

Feb28
Apparently there are other Scorpio books, which I haven’t read, and this is a sort of prequel, which shows how the characters got their start in the BDSM world. It centers on Connor and Meredith, who had a hot relationship three years ago. Now they meet again, and the sex

Prequels and novellas are not usual choices for me, but

Feb28
Prequels and novellas are not usual choices for me, but Scorpio Begins was superb and I truly enjoyed it! I was sad when it was over because I was really getting into the story. And Connor. The writing is intelligent and well done. All of the characters are fascinating and

A friend told me about this new author

Feb08
A friend told me about this new author, so I bought the book. ~madly fanny self~ OMG, she writes some of the hottest sex scenes I’ve ever read, and there’s a big difference between when the characters are having sex and when they’re making love. The scene between Tim and